Little advice on a girlfriend? would love some help!?

Well, basically, im new here but use it alot reading other questions..but was today wondering if any one could offer any advice. so here goes:





well basically im 17 yrs old, a father to be and in happy ( i think ? ) relationship, but thats the thing, my girlfriend of five years, who is carrying my daughter, has become very reluctant to see me, when she does see me shes fine and we get along great, but she used to be the type of girl that would come or go anywhere to see me.. and we were both madly in love! Now though she lives back at her parents, and im lucky to even speak to her, her mobiles broken ( apparently getting a new one today )


I have just moved away from the area where she ( and i used to ) live , for a while she lived here also, with me and again we got on great! BUt now she hardly wants to bother with me and dosnt contact me. and i cant contact her :(





I get really scared when she totally blanks me for days on end :(


no mobile, no internet, no nothing :( it makes it a struggle!





It seems as though when i ask her to just stay in touch to stop me from worrying she gets angry, i know i can be a little overboard and start worrying over nothing, but i love her :( she really is my world!


and now that we have a daughter on the way i want to keep this relationship alive, i dont remeber how to get a girlfriend anymore its been that long, so long that i doubt i would even attempt it!





i just dont know what to do.. today i am supposed to meet her 1 hour away from my place ( train ) at 6:30pm.. but so far have not recieved anything, her mobiles off shes neva on msn..and i really dont want to be stood up :(





she has stood me up once in the past but only that once and we seem to have gotten ova that day.. but i know ill be torn to bits if she doesnt show up :( i made sure i gave her plenty of money to get there, more than 3 times the needed amount :( and she is happy well seems it to be spending the night with me, so why am i so scared?





im sorry i have gone on a tangent here and am rambling on





in short





im scared my girlfriend of 5 years isnt going to turn up to meet me, and there is no way of contacting her, the trip is long, and if she dosnt turn up, a lonely one :(


( she has stood me up before )








prob have been so worried that i havent made myself clear but any questions ill answer back., thank you everyone :)Little advice on a girlfriend? would love some help!?
Whoa!! You are 17 and your girlfriend is pregnant with your baby girl! Great dude!! My boyfriend is 22, I am 19 and I am not yet pregnant :(


Anyway, lets come to the point.. Your GF is pregnant and during this time, it natural to have mood fluctuations and mood swings.. specially when she is so young.. Just keep her happy cause if she'll be happy, your baby will be happy as well as healthy.. Actually you are very young for such things, still I guess you are more mature than any other guy of your age.. You are responsible and sensible so try to understand the situation.. Traveling also gets tough while carrying a baby.. Don't ask questions, that will annoy her. be with her when she needs you and don't expect her to be with you when you need her.. its just a matter of few months and then she'll be same as before...the change is probably due to pregnancy . for more help you can go to a doctor and get help.. All the best and congratulations for the baby...Little advice on a girlfriend? would love some help!?
Have you actually asked her why she is doing this - to her face ?


maybe you should tell her how you feel .


you seem like a really good guy , you dont deserve that .





hope things work out dude