Ladies, I'd love your thoughts and advice on this one?

I've had a crush on this girl for over a year now. At the moment we are friends and I have told her that I wasn't ready for a relationship..even though I've truly had feelings for her. Lately, we've been spending a bit of time together and communicating by text and facebook messages frequently.


My intuition tells me that she's not interested in me in 'that way'.


But, the whole thing is eating me up inside.


People have advised me to tell her how I feel.


After being totally undecided on the issue, I think the time has come where I have to 'bite the bullet' (so to speak) and tell her what I'm feeling - to get it out in the open.


What scares me is that this could possibly risk the chance of having a friendship (which I would be happy to have). Plus, I don't want her to be out of my life.


What is the best way of telling her how I feel so that I don't freak her out and lose her as a friend??Ladies, I'd love your thoughts and advice on this one?
Sweety u sound like a true sweet heart, invite her somewhere where u guy can be alone (dinner or starbucks), and tell her how u feel if its meant to be then its meant to beLadies, I'd love your thoughts and advice on this one?
Just tell her how you feel. I am a big believer in fate. If you tell and you guys work out, GREAT. If it doesnt work out maybe you will still be friends but if you don't end up being friends than thats just the way it was meant to be. Good luck.
You should just come out with it. ';I like you and I know you may not like me but I just wanted to let you know. And I'm happy with atleast being friends';
just tell her.





u never know -7/10 times a girl likes her guy best friend.





start out casual like hey ______!


then go to like so who do you like?


*her response*


maybe i can hook u up wit him


*her response*


yea. i like this girl but i know she dont like me


*her response*


-drop hints about her-


then tell her