Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Hey ppl u'll who ans are really nice..i wanna share a personal prob. love to get some advice on?

i live wid my step mum,dad,step 1yr elder sis,n step small 8th std brother..my mom keeps on makein things tough for me as she envy's my progress as compared to her own daughter,it gets tough for me to do anythn n sometimes i lose all my confidence..my bro insults me even though he's small to me yet my parents say nothing..i miss my grand mom who use to love me,she's no more..life is difficult ..how do i deal with it..my sister complain against me and my dad barely is at home he never supports me on thn'sHey ppl u'll who ans are really nice..i wanna share a personal prob. love to get some advice on?
Your only option is to put up with it the best you can until you are an adult. Then move out.


It doesnt matter if you are nice to her or not she will never replace your mom/granny. Just make sure you do good in school and get a good job when you are done. Make this experience and her dislike of you force you to work harder in school.Hey ppl u'll who ans are really nice..i wanna share a personal prob. love to get some advice on?
Scream at your mom. That might sound bad, but when my step mom does that and when she gets tired of me doing better than her son she makes life a living hell, so i take a deep breath in and scream it all out. Tell her your not afraid to run away. Let her know that your not going to be pushed around. If she says ';Fine run away, see who misses you'; then do. Only stay gone for 1 or 2 nights and when you get back your dad will be soooo happy, and your step mom will be soooo gone.
hie!i know how hard is to live wid this kind peole!but if u want to become successful in life JUST IGNORE THEM!i know u will b thinking wat will happen if i do this!but this the only key to success!and for that best of luck for ur life!and also try to talk to ur dad about this!


or else just do sum trick that will tell ur dad wat r u going under!
u cant do anythng with ur step mom...but yeah dont tolerate ur siblings..the next time they shout or insult you just bash them up..protect ur self respect...stand up for ur right dont be scared..dont let them depress you...study hard and try to move out of the house for ur university..and yeah talk to ur dad..he has to listen to you or just scare him that if he doesnt u will run away from him forever..
dont be worry have peace and be cool in your behaviour, u are a nice girl ur step mother and father will someday get this fact.


and in case of ur brother and sister always provide them ur love.hope ur life will be better .........











abhishek
you should talk to your father first. in case no luck, then get shifted to some hostel or something. Seek your father's advice first.
I know exactly how you feel, but instead of my grand mom, i never get to see my own dad and i miss him! Only because my mum wont allow it though. I mean i make so many achievements in my life but alwyas get put down by my family and never congradulated, but my twin does when she doesn't achieve half the things i do ! All i have learned from having a life like this is to not give up or lose confidence in yourself!!








With your progress, you should be proud and happy of yourself! If nobody else is proud of you or gives you recognition for your progress then be happy for yourself !





Tell your step siblings to stop doing it and if they continute then they will not have your support with their problems in the future or something like that. Don't take it off them, if you let them act like that now then its only going to get worse.





Talk to your friends about how you feel or any other family members, telling your feelings can help you feel less stressed!





Hope this helped at all!xxx
Well you know youre like a modern day cinderella but dont lose youre confidents no matter what happens just believe in youre self and dont ever listen to any people who discourage you they are just jealouse of you but dont worry someday you might meet someone who will love you if this happens than you now have someone that loves you and someone that you lives right? but dont worry just always believe in youre self and don let anyone underestimate you.. well good luck than ill be cheeringg for you work harder ok goodluck LOL

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