Don't do anything drastic to break them apart, as it might just cause negative proportions to the situation. But you should not ignore them either.
You should tell Hanna she should have time to figure what she wants, as she cannot have two men at one go. It's simply cheating and being unfaithful. Give her time, and let her know you will wait and you will not do anything until a decision from her is made. This is the best you can do right now, as if you pick the other two options in either breaking them apart or ignoring her, both ways can backfire and evolve the situation into worse standards. Be patient, and see how it goes. If she takes too long to achieve a choice to either leave her boyfriend or stay (Perhaps a few months of waiting) Then you should move on as it proves she is being fully indecisive. Good luckI need relationship advice, a friendship and my love life depends on it...?
Well if she leaves him for you, She will leave you for someone else someday, shes a hoeeeee
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I think that if you aren't sure what to do, don't do anything. Acting on this before you're both 100% sure it's what you want is a sure fire disaster. Not only will you hurt the bf, but probably yourselves as you will be constantly questioning whether or not it's real.
Don't ignore your feelings, just be sure that what you're both really feeling is love.
Good Luck!!
You just said you don't want to hurt her relationship, so don't. But if she really has these feelings for you, then she should break things of with her boyfriend. It would be unfair to him to keep him holding on to her when her heart is elsewhere. It's ok for her to be happy with you, but the boyfriend deserves the truth and the chance to start with someone new.
I think you should wait for her decision, and be there for her. She's in a very tough situation, so try to understand. If she thinks she should stay with her current boyfriend, respect that. If she thinks she should break up with her boyfriend and be with you, hold her tight and stay true to her. I think the main thing you should remember is respect. :)
I think you should ignore them for the sake of their relationship. Just leave it for now. If she truely is falling in love with you, she'll probably break up with her boyfriend to be with you. That's when you act on your feelings, but don't get in between their relationship now.
Hope I helped. (:
ignore them and let them break up on their own, if you follow your feelings she could get mad at you and not want to date you after. if you cheat with her she could believe that cheating is ok and cheat on you later. just be her friend for now and wait until they break up
don't act, but don't ignore your feelings. give Hanna a chance to sort through things on her own, whatever you do don't push her to make a decision, but let her know you'll be there
if your ';friendship and love life'; depend on an answer from Yahoo, you've got bigger problems than the ones you listed. get counseling.
Just wait until something happens with her boyfriend then make yalls friendship something more..
Are you falling in love wth her? Make a call!
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