Ok heres the problem. My friend of which I've known since kindagarden (now we are in 7th grade) has a boyfriend. Ok and like these two girls who are kinda my friends buh not really...ok they are telling ppl that I have a crush on my friends boyfriend. And I truely don't. I think its just because my friend's boyfriend is my friend and I talk to him and joke around alot in algebra class they are thinking I like him and is like telling everyone I like him! Of which I don't like him at all! he's nice and all but thats my friends boy friend I can't do that... I mean I can like him buh I jsut don't! and now ppl are thinking I am back stabbing my friend. I mean am not!I mean I love her like a sister. We are so tight... I can never like him or watever to break our friendship to me doing that is just wrong. LEt me make my point clear again! I have no intrest in HIM! This is gonna ruin my reputation so much! And my friendhsip...I need help plz help me! how do I solve this problem!OMG! I need advice on this one problem! Love/friend problem?
If ppl are talking, then let them. But most importantly you gotta let ur friend know that they're all lying and that it's just a rumor. If your friend is truely a friend, she would believe you and not them.
BTW, I don't think you should stop hanging out with your friend's BF, that will only make things worst. Trust me.
So, just tell your friend and I wish u the best of luck :)OMG! I need advice on this one problem! Love/friend problem?
Well, if you love her like a sister, and she feels the same and you are both 'tight' then she will ignore any gossip she hears. Don't lie to her and tell her you don't like him, say all he could ever be to you is a 'friend' - nothing else as he's her man - believe me, people have more to worry about than who you like and who you don't. Get yourself a boyfriend - that way there's an end to it!
Tell your friend how you feel about all of this. Confront the gorls, maybe even with others around. Not a big scene, but just be blunt and say, ';ya know, I don't really appriciate you 2 telling everyoine that I like my bf's bf, she is my best friend and he is my friend. Beings he's my friend, we talk like friends, so please learn to mind your business and don't spread rumors that aren't true';
These 2 are jealous of you either alos like her bf, or jealous of you and your bff relationship of many yrs. It will all pass, stand your ground and all that matters is you and your best fro=iend and trust between the 2 of you.
First of all stop denying that you like him. You do like him or you wouldn't be friends with him. Tell these ppl to back off. Yeah you like him he's your bud and your best friend knows it. Have a talk with your best friend and let her know what's going on. There is no since in letting these ppl worry you. You know who you are and you need to stand up for that.
YOU are the leader of your existance.
tell your friend what you think and if you hear people saying it tell them shut ut because its between me and my friend you dont need to stick your nose in it. If shes your best friend she will listen and believe you.
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