Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Advice on my guy friend..I really like him, do we have a chance at love?

We've been great friends for 2 years. He kept in touch even though he moved to another country %26amp; ometimes we chat for hours. We kissed last time we met. He was to visit but with exams, didn't. He had ended it with his girlfriend before I visited. Couple of mths ago he chatted with me %26amp; told me he had feelings for her. Yesterday he contacted me again %26amp; invited me to visit him. Then he said, by the time I come he might be back with his ex (she lives in his home country %26amp; he is meeting her v soon). He told me he thinks I'm really cool, hot, intelligent. He told me it may not work out when he meets this girl but he thinks he would like to marry her (not now..future), but he's not sure! %26amp; wants at least to be friends with me. I told him I wouldn't visit if he has a girlfriend. Then yesterday he mailed me from the city she lives in 'hey, I'm here %26amp; just realised I don't have much to do here, how r u? what's up?' To me this sounds like he's thinking of me. Why does he keep coming back %26amp; contacting me %26amp; inviting me if he feels for this girl?Advice on my guy friend..I really like him, do we have a chance at love?
I think he just wants to lead you on because he's obviously madly in love with this girl, but doesn't want to hurt you. If I were you, I'd make it clear that I didn't want anything to do with him (relationship wise) with the way he's acting.


Move on. Find someone else. Keep in touch with him but don't play his silly games.Advice on my guy friend..I really like him, do we have a chance at love?
Yeah he is still thinking of you but I think he's only interested in the physical side of things from what you've said. Therefore, it'd be best to cut off all contact with him before you do something you may regret.
I don't think you have any chance at love with him its time you moved on and found someone where you come first not second to this one or that one.If he loved you he wouldn't be telling you about all these other women.
G'Day mate don't you think he is just being a friend,But if he says he cant see you when he gets with this girl then tell him to f off,unless he is holding on to you just in case it fails with this girl.If it fails i wouldn't go out with him because it shows that your second best and i sure you don't wanna be second best in a relationship.If he wants you he should go 4 you now and not see what happens with this other girl.If i was you just be friends with him and not go out with him,you can get better guy who will notice you right away.cheers mate

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