Need advice on the girl i love!?

ok so this whole thing started when i was 11 years old, i met this girl who just literally made my heart drop ive been head over heels for her ever since then. i am now 17 years old and had just recently gotten up the guts to tell her that i love her


and she rejected me yet like 3 days later she kissed me and now she acts like she hates me. what can i do?? i know this is the girl i want to marry someday, How can i show her that i care about her more than anyone else?? Please helpNeed advice on the girl i love!?
Just remember that no matter what you do, it is her choice.





If you are really right guy then just be yourself and show her that. Do not try to be something you really are not just because you think this is the girl you want ot marry. If you go into this with that kind of perception you are just heading into a big self confidence drop if it turns out she really does not want you.Need advice on the girl i love!?
hmmm do u really love her? why do u love her? what do u love about her?





and shes eitheir confused or playin hard to get! u need to call her and tell her how u feel shitt aint gon come to u u have to come to it son!
lol i imagine this is what my boyfriend used to go through with me. he always used to say he loved me soo much and he would go out with other girls but always still be talking to me but i liked someone else and i never gave him a chance and i thought he really was not worth a glance. it took like 2 years for him to get me to like him. sadly i just gave him a chance because he was popular and everyone said he was cute and cool and when i first hung out with him i saw what everyone meant.. he was soo cute. but enough about reminiscences.





i don't know why she kissed you and hates you now but the only few explanations i can think of is she did it because she felt sorry for rejecting you (i can imagine myself giving an apology kiss to someone i feel bad for) and then she felt bad for doing that and maybe misleading you or it may have been talked about and she was ashamed of it... OR she likes you but is very confused.





don't nag her too much about it, that is NOT the way to go. you can try writing her a little note.. not anything cheesy cause if you're not a known shakespeare DON'T try it it's a turn off sometimes. make it come from the heart and in your own words. think about this really hard and write EXACTLY how you feel. whenever i write poetry and i think about it and what may sound good it doesn't have this certain flow but when it comes from the heart i end up really impressed with it. trust me on that. and if you write the note keep it simple no illustrations, no decorations or embellishments, coz anything extra is taking a risk that she may think you're dorky cause everyone has their own tastes.


my boyfriend is a lil thug and it really got me to believe that he really did care about me whenever he told me how he felt. he didn't try to sugarcoat his explanations either, he just told me straight up and it's more believable that way.





but if this doesn't work and she doesn't accept you for who you are then forget about her she doesn't know what she's missing. trust me if you can find one person out of those couple hundred where you found her you can find someone else. out of the approx. 6 billion people on earth say for every 500 people you can find 12,000,000 people you like and one of them is BOUND to like you!





whoo this is pretty long... well i tried to help... good luck k? ^_^





best answer if this helps please.
i really dont no how u could show her but really i dont c y she would have kissed u then the next day accted like she hated u.....she probly dont hate u ...somethin was probly just bothering her that day but if u told her that u liked her and she was cool w that then ask her how she would feel if u asked her out
It sounds like you're a sweet guy... But she doesn't sound right for you. If you're as loyal as liking a girl from 11 years old to 17 years old, I'm sure you're too good for her. If she rejects you, then kisses you, then acts almost hateful towards you, she obviously is either very confused at the moment, or she isn't really a nice person. If it's the former, I suggest you ask her outright what is going on. There is nothing worse than crossed signals.





If it's the latter, I suggest you start looking for other girls. I'm sure that someone as sweet as you will find someone who can reciprocate your feelings. I know it's hard--I'm currently trying to get over a guy--but in the long run, it'll be worth it.
you already did but you have to let her make the next move because you dont' want to freak her out.
sit down and talk seriously with her about this relationship. tell her to stop playing with your feelings and take it seriously
She's just playing with youre emotions,until she finds some one else!let her go!!!you'll be better off in the end!!!!
I know this might not be the advice your looking for, but you sound to good for this girl. If she is just toying with your heart like this, then don't bother with her. I know it's probably not that simple, but you've got to try to let her go. I know what love feels like, and it's right next to impossible to let someone go even if they stomp all over you. Whatever you decide, the best of luck to you.
all i can say is prepare for alot of drama because she sounds like a drama queen