Any advice on how to move on frm a relationship wit the love of your life?

i broke up wit my bf the other nit as the relationship wasn't goin anywhere %26amp; we were arguin mor n mor. i thought he was my soulm8 but i fell outta love wit him. how do i move on, knowin ive broken his heart? plus, is it possible 4 us 2 go on jus bein friends?Any advice on how to move on frm a relationship wit the love of your life?
hello DD, so i am proud of u, u did the nxt step, breaking the relationship i am not saying i am happy about it, but i think it is for both of ur sake and to know ur differences, which u know it is not going anywhere? my question is did u end up in a nice way? even though u r the one who broke the relationship, u shuldn't feel bad on his account. He needs to see the clear picture for himself, what is going on in ur relationship, not just being there for each other, argue then make up, does not make the relationship work. both of u need to be mature being involve, commitment is a big words to understand, how commited are u? u probably are? but how about him? it takes 2 to tango and if u don't have that strong partner the dance wouldn't be look so graceful and wonderful as it should be. you cannot tell that a person with, will be ur soulmate, the feeling that u had at first would probably love at first sight, that only works in the first sight, if u know what i mean, the more u spend time together the more u get to know each other, and u think he is the one, now u finally find out that u had differences. Yes! it is possible for both of u to be friends again, just for now give each other some space, stop hovering on him don't call him, e-mail, or even tex him, u need to learn how to let go! letting go is not an easy task but if u focus u will be alright and u will find it in ur heart that this is the first chapter in ur life and it has to end for now. divert ur attention into something make ur mind occupied. Do somthing that u enjoy, if u enjoy working out, then go for it, read, or just be with the people u enjoy the most except him i mean, have fun. Let go! that all there is to it...i hope i can help. and u will be fine...just be positve, here is my final thought for u, that had been share with me too, now i am sharing it with u....'; Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what u could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as u can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high spirit to be cumbered with old nonsense';... Good luck....and take care..Any advice on how to move on frm a relationship wit the love of your life?
i hope you're proud of yourself.....ther's no way you can go on just being friends....god women are all the same
You should not be friends with him right away. It is not healthy. You just have to give it time to get over him and maybe after that you can consider being friends. Give it time. Time heals everything.
friends will depend on how you both feel,if it wasn't a mutual break-up he may be resentful.leave it for a while to calm down and don't rush into another relationship.don't let some other poor bloke be the rebound but enjoy your new found freedom,if it was meant to be maybe you will meet again in the future
You need time and space, when the dust settles you may well be freinds, but not straight away, it will be harder for him if you are a friend while he is still getting over you.. And vice versa. Time will heal this..
you cant be friends right away you need space to become yourself first learn how to make yourself happy then you can make others happy appreciate who you are let time heal then maybe you can be friends when you both can get rid of your attachments to each other then true friendship can blossom when you both want the other to be truly happy and whats best for each other it just takes time