Thursday, August 19, 2010

Love....I need advice on something....?

Oh gosh where do I start. I have known this guy since he was 16 and now hes 21. We have always been close...when we were younger I was his first for EVERYTHING!! We never ever had a title and he didn't want to be my boyfriend. So in August/September 2001 he went back to high school and I went to college. Then in February of that year he met this girl in his art class and she became his girlfriend. Now it's 2006 and they are still together. Well I never cared for her because she was bitchy and she despises me. I think she despises me because I was with him first. Well in February of 2006 they broke up for good. He's still single and now we talk all the time and act like we are together but we aren't. I need some serious advice. I think it's not working because he's young and wants to be single but there might be more to it.Love....I need advice on something....?
hey sweetie maybe he just needs time to get over the painof getting out of a long relationship and knowing he messed up for that long and he could have been much happier without her its hard to feel stupid after relationships that long and trying to figure out where they went wrong so you make sure they dont go wrong in those areas again you never know in his eyes he may want to be with you but wants to make sure he does everything right this time so you and him can be happy so he's fixing all of his flaws so when he comes back theres no way he has a reason to leave again so keep your head upLove....I need advice on something....?
You need to talk to him about this. I was ';friends'; with a guy and we hung out all the time. We actually acted like a couple but we didn't have the title either. Then he started coming to my family outings and they all loved him. My feelings for him kept getting stronger and stronger everyday. I talked to him about it and he said that he just wasn't ready for anything serious, so I told him that we didn't need to hang out anymore b/c I had such strong feelings for him and I didn't want to end up getting hurt. So since then we haven't spoken. It sucked for the 1st few weeks b/c I missed him so much, but I surronded myself with other people to help me get my mind off of him. Now, I'm doing great and I hardly ever thank about him. Just talk to him. You might be suprised with his response!
OK what's the age different between you and him? I think you should tell him how you feel. I mean in order for a relationship to work you both have to be on the same page and it seems like you two are a different page. If you want someone serious then maybe you need to start messing with someone that wants the same thing as you. You can't just wait for this guy to come around a realize he the person he was looking for was right in front of his face all along. Good Luck
I don't get it. So u guys were doing what most couples does but he din''t want u to be his GF and when he mate this girl they became couples umm . I think he probably wanted u as a friend with benefit or he would have went out with you when he had the chance. I think if you truly want to know how he feels about you, talk to him and he might let you in but not sure. Luck
have you told him that? just talk to him and ask him if there will ever be a ';we'; between you two. if you love him, why waste love...that's a damn shame





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