I keep holding on to the hope that one day we might finally meet each other, but i just want some advice on what you think i should do. Should i just cut contact with him and move on because he lives too far away, as i can't bear to carry on speaking to him knowing that i cant be with him? or should i carry on contact with him in the hope we will meet soon, or is that ever going to happen? im so confused!Advice needed on long distant love?
You've only met him on the internet right.... so how do you know that you've met him at all?
On the internet you can recreate yourself and be who ever you wanted to be- he may be married or in a relationship...
Even if you feel that he is being totally himself you will only ever see the good side of him because he chooses when he sits down at the computer. In reality he will have his hangups too just as you will. Problem is that you've been fooled into thinking that he is perfect.
Unless you have talked about coming and visiting each other it's probably completely out of his head, it's expensive and to be honest he's probably in a relationship already- your just the bit on the side and he could cut it with you with a click. Much easier then with a girlfriend in Australia who could turn up and make trouble for him.
Of course I could be completely wrong and he's a really genuine guy but even then it's still very expensive and unlikely that you are going to make it as a relationship.
Why not cool things off- don't cut things completely- still remain friends and if he hasn't a problem with it he obviously wasn't all that. If he wants to know why and tells you his feelings then maybe take it slowly and don't rush into things. And either way try to get out there and meet people in your own country. That way you have everything covered.
Hope this helps :D Advice needed on long distant love?
well i met a guy who live 4 hours flight away from me,i met him december last year just holiday fling. when we came home we knew there was feeling there .could,nt stop thinking about him he was the same.been 3 tines to see him now going back in december to be wiyh again,don get me wrong its hard sometimes cause you want to be with them.for you just hang on see what happens you never know thing could work out so you can see him.
good luck
tracy
hi there i reed ur answer and i think you should give it ago with this man if you love him? i meet my boyfriend on a chat room about 3 year go he lives about 4 hours away on a train and we are still going strong? it is worth trying it if it dont work out then you know it waz not ment to be i hope every think work out for you bye x
well im in the same situation as you...i meet this guy from Colombia and just like you we talk every single day...through phone, messenger, etc. i also meet him on a dating website....i also get frustrated like you, but i think you should just live this experience and whatever happens is going to happen...if its meant to be it will work out...good luck :)
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