I went out with a guy for 1 year and 3 months starting in freshman year. He was definitely my first love and he broke up with me. We hung out a few months after he ended it and i guess it made everything harder when we both had feelings for each other. I cried myself to sleep for 7 months. Last year I barely talked to him and hes kind of an ***...
Well im going to be a senior in high school now and i havent had a boyfriend since then. I'm over the past but I can't seem to like anyone new. I really want to love someone again but im always reminded of my first.
I just want to have a fun year... help?Advice on how to move on from your first love?
Just make yourself available. Smile if you see a guy you think you might like to go out with. Don't talk a lot about your ex when you do go out. It takes time to heal a broken heart and it sounds like yours was shattered completely. You never forget your first love, but I promise you there will be a time when you can look back and think of him fondly. bless you honey, and good luck.Advice on how to move on from your first love?
Once you get it in your mind and heart that he has moved on with his life, then you can move on with yours. Let it go. You only get one life and you can't waste it on someone who don't want to be with you. You will get someone new. You are just scared of being hurt again.
cheer up darlin!!! First loves are really hard to forget. Don't sulk!!! There are a lot ore opportunities. Open your doors. Be your own friend first before making friends with him again. Let your old wounds heal first before coming up to him again. You might just force up the issue on your breakup if you keep hanging with him. Don't waste your time. Go out and date again. Don't delve into ';what could have been if'; blahblahblah, you'll just waste your energy on those things.. Pray .. Love comes to those who believe it. Who knows, your next romance might just be knocking at your doors.... now!
If you've gotten over it the best way to nail the proverbial coffin shut is meet someone else. Go out and get ya' a good one and don't look back.
Honestly I kinda know what your going through but in a different situation. All I can say is keep your head up, meet other guys and take it slow...you will never forget your first love...I have a few songs that I hear and I just start to cry over my first and now he is going to soon have his own little family and I will soon have my baby sometime in January...but just go out and meet other people and don't block urself from liking someone because you may miss out on a great guy...Just follow your heart
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