Any advice on seperation with some one you love and having a baby with them would be much appreciated?

finding it difficult to copeAny advice on seperation with some one you love and having a baby with them would be much appreciated?
just think of your baby. i kno it is hard iv been thru this me and my daoughters father broke up wen i was 3 months pregnant and it was very hard even tho i split with him. he wasnt interested in the pregnancy even tho he was the 1 that wanted her and i just couldnt take it ny more. now im a single mother and i wouldnt change it for the world. the babys needs always come 1st, and it would rather have u 2 separated than together just for them wen u dont want to be. it is difficult but ul get thru it, good luck xxxAny advice on seperation with some one you love and having a baby with them would be much appreciated?
Has he gone because of your relationship or the baby?


Some men get scared and runaway when they have to face up to being a parent and the responsibility of that. If this is the case give him space and time do not push him.





If he simply doesnt want to be with you sorry some men are b*****ds.


Its scary being on your own and having a baby but you will be stronger than you think. You are a great person and in time he will regret what he has lost. Do you really need him? I mean REALLY need him???? I dont think so





All that advice is well and good and assuming that your not considering anything else. But maybe your considering not having the baby. Only you can decide this and no amount of advice or others opinions can help. It is a very difficult choice to make.


To make a choice of this magnitude will make you a better and stronger person.


Good luck and listen to your heart xxxxxx
forgive the person n' raise the baby with full of love n' attention......the baby is innocent... :)
I am sorry to hear of your separation





I am a single mum with 2 children and my ex partner and i was together for 14 years and we separated a couple of years ago.


I found it very difficult to deal with the separation and i thought that my world had ended. My ex partner and i did try again after a few months of being separated but we found it so hard and we realised that it was definitely over between us.


I felt bad for my children because i did not know how they would cope with the separation.


Well 2 years on and i am really happy now, the kids are really happy as they see there dad a lot and they know that they now that they can contact him anytime that they wish. My ex is happy two. The kids are also happier because there is no more rows between my ex partner and i. The house is so much more relaxed now and in result the kids are more relaxed and happy in their life.


We have managed to stay good friends and we possibly have a better rel now than what we did when we was together.


It is very hard to handle a separation but in time it will get a lot easier and in time you might realise that you both have done the right thing in separating.


Try and keep yourself busy at all times and try to have a good time. Try meeting new people.


Time is what makes it easier.


good luck. keep your head high and keep smiling


i wish you the best
I am sorry to hear about you seperating from your partner. People deal with this differently to others. People can only give you advice but you have to make the decisions for yourself.


If you only want a baby to see if this sorts out the relationship, it is not a good way to start. A baby can bring alot of stress to any relationship. I think my sister in law has done this and she is left alone with the baby. The baby will only pick up the negative feelings in the relationship. No matter how old they are, they are very clever picking this up. I do hope everything works out well for you. Follow your heart. Best of luck to ye..