I'd love some advice please on this guy..will I have a chance with him or is he confused?

Ive had this guy friend for over a yr..we met in college and I moved to another state but we've kept in contact. Recently I visited him and we kissed but never talked about our feelings (as I had to head back home). Then he contacted me and I invited him to visit me. He said he'd love to once he gets some free time (he's a huge school load). Last conversation he asked how long I'm going to be around (as i'm thinking of travelling). Told him at least a few mths so he said maybe at next vacation he will visit but he's thinking of going to his parents instead (who live in another country) but he said 'we'll see'. I told him ok %26amp; then sort of joking said that I wont invite him again! He got the joke %26amp; laughed. This is wrecking my head though. I know family is important but I feel I'm wasting my time. What do you think? Also, I'm the one who is now saying 'hi' on chat. Maybe its that its so long distance its difficult. Please help me? we're both single without kids.I'd love some advice please on this guy..will I have a chance with him or is he confused?
its seams as if he is confused about how he feels about u and that he may b shy and u need 2 just let him have some time and space 2 think about things u and him may get togetherI'd love some advice please on this guy..will I have a chance with him or is he confused?
Seems to me he has his head somewhere else, be patient not pushy. The distance is a big strain on any one so remember that this may take some time to deal with. Men are not going to be the one to open the converstion on feelings, so it's up to you if you want to know if you have a chance ,be the one to share your feelings. you have nothing to loose, your not amrried or children so live life take chances step out of the box. If you love him, tell him. At least it's his parents house, not some one else. right!!! How do you feel about him? How serious are you about waiting on him if he needs time, are you willing to wait or even take the chance? A kiss can say alot, This means more than you think. He has feelings maybe just has a hard time showing them. Good luck!
It could simply be that this young man is very shy and doesn't know how to tell you what he wants out of your friendship! Was the kiss a 'peck on the cheek', or was it what the young today call a 'pash'! I presume since you say that you kissed, then it must have been the latter, in which case think about it... did he really respond, or was it just 'a kiss'? Because if you think about it honestly, rather than romanticising that kiss, you should have the answer that you are looking for!





If it was simply 'a kiss', then maybe he simply wants a friendship and doesn't know how to tell you!





If it was a responsive 'pash', then maybe he is simply shy and doesn't know how to take this further - especially as you live so far apart now!





Perhaps you should ask him to think back to that kiss, when you next 'chat' and ask him about his feelings about it and you!





You need to know whether this is going anywhere, because if it isn't you could waste years in a relationship that isn't going to happen!





At least you will know where you stand with him and it isn't as though you are going to bump into him every day! If he lived in the same street it would be embarrassing to find that he didn't feel the same! However, he lives in a different state, so apart from the people answering your question no one else will know except for him and you! Perhaps the fact that you moved away has been difficult for him to come to terms with - and may make him think that there can never be more than friendship! So tell him how you feel!!!





I pray that you will find the courage to ask, because having been in a long distance relationship at about your age, I know that it isn't easy! It isn't easy when you are both sure of each other and head over heels in love, it must be so much worse when time is passing and you are none the wiser as to whether or not it is worth waiting!