Advice on bringing back the love!?

I have been with my husband 5 years and the last year or so for various different reasons have been quite difficulr between us. He has been away for a month to visit his family who live abroad (idecided to stay at home for a bit of space for us to reflect ect)





He is flying home Wednesday and I would like to kinda get the love and romance back, I am meeting him from the airport and am really excited about seeing him now. I plan to dress real pretty for him to think ';Wow'; but i really want that sparkle back! Any advice? Im really hoping the phrase ';absence makes the heart grow fonder'; is true!Advice on bringing back the love!?
Play it by ear and remember he may be tired and jet-lagged.Flying can be a real hassle. So make your home as welcoming as possible and chill with him for the evening. Tell him you missed him so much, and leave it there.Advice on bringing back the love!?
Wow. That's a lucky guy. But don't jump on him when he leaves the terminal building. Talk gently, slowly and caressingly. He'll be tired, I presume.





First words I'd love to hear on my return.


';How was the flight?';


Then follow up with


';I've really missed you.'; ... because it sounds like you have. Then take him home. Make he feel relaxed and see what happens.





If on the other hand he wants a brew with the boys, hit him with the frying pan! :-)
Do something sexual that you have not done before. Maybe have dinner somewhere that will allow him touch you under your skirt at the table.... taboo things that you haven't done before together.
Treat him like you did when you were dating, make the effort to show him that you love him, and he will respond.
Have a fresh new exciting sex with your husband in a total different place. lol haha When my wife left for 14 days to visit family of hers. She came back to me like a roaring tiger. It was super awesome and great! My wife has not been like a tiger in years...actually over ten yrs back of our marriage. lol haha
Only time will tell just do what you said get dressed up get your hair done look good for him and have a nice romantic evening at home alone. Maybe have a romantic meal ready or a catered one there depending on your budget and then just a whole night of candles, talking, romantic music and yourselves. you go girl ;p
Wow!! All these are really great answers so far!! I agree with you. When he walks off that plane is is going to see you looking AWESOME!! Maybe you can have his favorite dinner ready for him when he comes home.


Here are a list of ideas:


*Full body massage...men LOVE this, and it should work for you, as long as he is not to tired from the flight!! :) Make sure if you do this wear something sexy under the clothes you are picking him up in :D


*Do something special for him...maybe have something for him on his nightstand when you guys go to bed as a couple..anything from his favorite candy to his favorite pic


*If you have a perfume that's his favorite, wear it..


*Let him sleep in when you wake in the morning...make his fav. breakfast..





These are just a few...Let me know if you need more help...Most Of all ENJOY eachother!!!!
Take some rose petals and spread them from the front door to the bedroom and all over the bed....Candles soft music......
Think of it as a new beginning. the spark should be there for you guys. Absence does make the heart grow fonder and if he feels the same the spark will be there. Enjoy being back together. don't start with the way things were. Once he is home and things are getting back to normal..talk to each other with out accusing each other of things and saying the other was wrong. That won't help.
If you are both wanting the same thing, then I think you can make it work. Start dating again. Find some fun things to do together that you haven't done in a while. So many cities offer things like movies in the park, farmers markets and these such things that some of us never look into. It may be fun to find a few things in your town...together...and decide to do a few. My aunt and Uncle have started doing this recently and are having a great time.
Here's what you do, buy the sexiest outfit you can afford ( SHORT SKIRT, OR ONE PIECE SHORT SKIRT,WEAR YOUR SEXIEST PAIR OF HIGH HEELS ), get your hair done, put on just enough make-up to accent your natural looks. Prepare a nice dinner, light some candles, play some relaxing music on the good stereo ( preferrably contemporary jazz instrumentals). Don't turn the music up too loud, because it'll destroy the mood, you're trying to create ';the ambiance,'; turn it up just enough to hear it (between low and medium). Rose petals leading from the front door to the bathwater ( Buy those big thick candles you get from Pier 1 imports....and it's candlelight only in the bathroom). Make him take a bath, so while he's taking a bath, you can go to the room and take our underwear off. Once he dries off and gets out, Sit him down at the table and have dinner. Bring your conversation too; control the conversation, make sure you keep his mind occupied. For example, ask him about what he did during his stay out there by himself, and interject some flirtatious sexual talk as well and do that for the duration of the dinner. When you're both finished eating, take his plate along with yours to the kitchen sink. Take him by the hand and lead him to the bedroom, take all of his clothes off, but instead of you, I want you to lay him down first. Then you strattle him, (remember you Don't have on any underwear at this point, but your sexy dress or skirt is still on you). Drive him crazy getting him all good and ready, trust me..... ain't no man gonna turn down sex, especially when you have on an easy access dress and you're riding him. Something about a woman riding you with her skirt or dress on that makes men crazy, because he'll grab your butt immediately.THEN RAPE HIS A**. And when you do it..... I want you to whoop it on him so good, he'll want to just stay inside you for hours, make him wish the night never ended. I want you to f*** him til you get so soar, when he finally pulls out it'll feel like he's still inside.





Now if that don't get him, then there's something wrong with him. If you miss him, as much as, I think you do then you already know what I'm sayin is guaranteed to get you tuned up just right. You need to understand that what you have between your legs is so POWERFUL, he'll damn near quit his job for it. There's no rehab for it, because once you get a good taste of it, the only cure is to have more of it. I'm pretty sure you're getting hot-flashes just reading this. Trust me, use this idea I just gave you, and I promise you the sex will be so memorable, it'll dominate his thoughts.





Imagination is one of the keys to a sexually thorough marriage. The advice I just gave to, you is the kind of thing couples do on their anniversary when they're dating; and this is something I just made up while reading your question, so just think about what's going to happen when you actually do all of this. Now I'm not married, but this kind of advice is prone to get you pregnant..............quickly. So I want to also say congratulations on your impending pregnancy.





Love hard, and sex long.............the trick is to make him feel like a King. If you ride him right and work those muscles, be prepared to get your Back Blown Out!! Because he'll have no choice but to treat you like a queen. Your toes will curl in directions you didn't know were possible....GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
Just be yourself and take things one step at a time.


Good Luck
A good opportunity to reconnect after that much time is to sit down together and figure out what both of your needs are. Here's a good survey:





http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/鈥?/a>





I hope it works out for you.
Bring ';love'; back is usually trying to re-capture that ';in love'; feeling. The thing is the ';in love'; feeling is the excitement of exploration. Anything that you could do with confidence that is different from what he expects will give that feel of exploration, but I do warn you that over time you will have to move to the next stage of ';loving'; which is much more about acceptance of who we really are.
Sometimes you have to invent the spark, it doesn't stay alive forever. You have to remember what made you fall in love with him from the begining. Think of all the great times you've had together and forget the bad, also think about all the things you love about him. That is the way to keep the spark alive. Plan a romantic evening. Many times us women complain that our men aren't romatic enough but truth is they just don't know how to be so we need to do it for them.
Don't force anything and if you see a problem now is not the time to hash it out. trying and act like everything is ok even if only for that night. show him why he married you in the first place.