Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?

Let me tell you this situation.





I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. I felt so terrible... he ignored me and chose his friends over me, and I wasn't getting what I wanted. We dated for 3 1/2 years almost and for the first 2 years we were as happy as ever... just head over heels for eachother. As time went by we changed a bit both...





Now that were seperated I have realized how much I miss him and care about him. I feel like he made mistakes, but I see the mistakes I was making as well. I was being so selfish in always wanting what I wanted, never asking him what he wants or anything. I would get angry easily and remind him of everything wrong he did. I was just nagging and being someone I didn't want to be!





Anyways, I realize this now and have been trying to get him back. I don't want to let something so precious go... and I love him. What is the best way to get him back? I told him how I felt, but he said he wanted to see the change first. I know I'm becoming a different person and already have quite a bit of change... I know it will take time for the complete change, but still. Before it's too late... any pointers or ideas?


3 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
i think you are blaming yourself for something you didn't do


it was his fault that ignore you and choose another girl but now you are saying you was selfish believe me when my x leave me i was thinking all the time and blame myself for things aren't true .


you are saying he is with someone else now not you


and think about that will he leave his girlfriend and look for anyone now


sorry i am very sorry but i don't think so ,girl you need to relax and think about the problem and i am sure you gonna make it . i don't know what you will decide but i know your personality because of your answers and i know whatever you do is the right thing.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
well just go up to him and tell him you just want to be friends first nothing more then after a couple weeks or so just tell him you want to go on dates nothing to serious and hopefully he will see the changes you made and he will have feeling for you again and just keep reminding him about all the good times and forget about the bad but eventually he will go back to you
leave him alone,


once he sees your not calling or looking for him,


he will call,


Guys lie to chase,
give him time he probably is feeling what ur feeling u sound so used 2 each other wait