Single dad 1 daughter(widowed) looking for advice on dating my daughter wants me to love again?

That is so wonderful - I'm guessing that YOU want to love again as well ;o)





When you say dating, do you mean meeting people?





If so, the best way is to socialise more generally, meeting all kinds of people (men have sisters after all) but do go first for activities that interest you. No good going to the local chess club and meeting a chess fanatic if you can't stand the game. Same goes for pubs, casinos, football matches etc. First Aid classes might be a good start, or maybe cookery, car enthusiasts is a good one, evening classes? Tai Chi?





Just go out and meet new people and take your time, don't rush into anything you might regret.Single dad 1 daughter(widowed) looking for advice on dating my daughter wants me to love again?
Sweet! Daughters are like that and she's probably right.Single dad 1 daughter(widowed) looking for advice on dating my daughter wants me to love again?
question is vaige. what dating advice do you need?
be there and done that.............Wife died when my two were 5 (Almost 6) and 4 years of age. Its hard you need to get out but be careful............. the Florence Nightingales will flock to you, and will try to take over your life. be patient make sure you socialise on the weekends you'll meet the right person...........
What a supportive daughter. You do it when you are ready though. There are lots of internet sites you can look at and as they charge to join you don't get any idiots just out for a laugh. Have a browse through match.com or friendsreuniteddating. They have lots of members and you can chat with people first.
Lol isn't it funny when they start to give us parents advice I get the same from my son he reckons I should start dating again or at least go out more. They do mean well though bless them.





Anyway my advice do you is to do it in your own time thats what I'm planning to do, when I'm ready to move on I will but not until then.
You have to do it for you.





SteveC
it shouldn't be what your daughter wants but what YOU want. if you're ready then go for it.
Don't think of it as dating or loving again - just be yourself and open your mind up to the idea of meeting someone - believe me - it does make you look different to women! When you have got it straight in your head that meeting someone is for you, then you'd be surprised at how much that 'vibe' you give out naturally actually works and when you meet someone and it's right - you'll know it - good luck
thats great,, she thinks you deserve to be happy, what a great daughter you have..just let it happen you will love again best of luck
You obviously have a good daughter. It really is age dependant on what you do. I'd join some groups in your area and just make friends. Don't look for love and it will come when you least expect it. Good luck.
You must have a very caring daughter, i have been a widow for 3 years now, and my daughter who is 19 is adamant that i should never and do not need a man in my life again, but no matter what she says i will do what i want to do, not what she says.I went to a diners club for singles last week, didn't meet anyone but the food and the entertainment was very good, and it is a good way to make new friends even if you don't meet a new partner, maybe you should try something like this.
It's just like kids to try to look out for the well being of the parent. That is awesome that your daughter is looking out for you. I am sorta in the same boat, with the exception, I'm divorced. My teen daughter wants me to find a good man to date and fall in love with. I love it that kids want us to be happy, just as we want them to be happy.
You should watch those run on sentences. Thought you wanted to date your daughter at first.
Your daughter is young and probably looking at it positively for you to see you happy. But you need to remember that she must not feel pushed out. Also it may not always be a good idea to date someone with the same age child as your girl. I had a 12 year old daughter and my then boyfriend had a 12 year old boy. They couldn't stand each other!! Each child liked the opposite adult but were always jealous and in competition with each other. It caused lots of arguments between the 2 adults. She needs to feel that you still put her first and it's probably better to date slowly at first. She may be looking for a substitute mum, but these relationshipts take lots of time, patience and involves lots of trust on all sides. Have days out with your child but also evenings out as a couple. Take it slowly and start off as friends first. If it's going to develop it will develop naturally you do not need to rush. I hope it works out for you and good luck! :0)
Just find some community places %26amp; meet up with some people...let it happen naturally, dont force it %26amp; dont take the first that comes along. Have fun is the key to success. And be sure to include your daughter in your decisions too, sounds like she is a wonderful caring person.
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Just try to take your daughter's advice...go out there and look for someone that is beautiful on the inside...if she is beautiful on the inside and outside that is just a bonus...Make sure she has a good personality...that she can make you laugh... %26amp; everything else that you love in a women. I can tell you from being in the same place...if you don't try to love again, you'll regret that you ain't happy and that your daughter doesn't have a mom in her life...i grew up with a mother and i hated it...don't let your daughter be motherless!


Good Luck


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Dating your Daughter
My advice would be to not date your daughter.
take one day at a time and remember they will not be like your wife so dont compare
thats sweet of her. just go out nd have fun! live your life nd be happy :)