(also, i met him online and have only heard his voice a little,havnt been able to talk to him yet myself,no mic. (the things i need in a relationship though barly require a need to constantly be in person though. not in a starting one.))Be serious- advice on a online relationship/ said they love you, your unsure,but they are perfect?
Go with your gut. I've done online relationships (one in england, one in the us, finally the perfect one) and it all takes that feeling. If you feel he is right then give it a chance. If you are unsure becuase you feel he might not be all he says he is then go with your gut. If you are just plain scared approach it slowly but be open with him as to why, like you told him. Just be honest to yourself and him.Be serious- advice on a online relationship/ said they love you, your unsure,but they are perfect?
I'm not a psychologist so I'll steer clear of that portion of the question.
Online relationships are very interesting. Because you're not seeing the person face to face, sometimes you're more courageous to say things, it's safer not seeing someone's facial expressions. You feel the other person is being extemely honest and that is attractive. My advice is to take your time. Don't use the 'L' word too soon. It may take 6 months but then true colors will show. Perhaps it's exactly as you thought but there is the chance it's not. Go slowly, you'll behappier you did in the longrun.
I kinda have the same problem, but lighter. My mom's totally crazy and my dad's an alcoholic. They fight all the time, like, for ever.
If this's psychological you got to fight against it, you can't be thinking if it's or not. But be carefull with online relationship.
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