I need advice on how yo let go of a man I am still in love with but treats me like crap.?

I have been with this man for 1o years and we have five children together. He lies, cheats and everything else. I used to do the same. We were both in an addiction, I cleaned up and am getting my life on tracj he's still running a muck. Thing is I still love this asshole. So much that I'm willing to put up with his ****.I need advice on how yo let go of a man I am still in love with but treats me like crap.?
So what's your question? The last two lines seem to answer your own question.


You can love them but be unable to live with them and their BS. You just have to make up your mind.I need advice on how yo let go of a man I am still in love with but treats me like crap.?
you really need to move on.he is mentally abusing you and later on it could affect your kids life stile to.so thank of your kids and whats best for them.because there your life.when you have know were to go your kids will be there.move out,hit him with child support.because you deserve better.
Sweetie, it's likely that you will always love him; you made babies together. Have you considered doing what is best for you and your children? It's not healthy for them to see their mother being treated in this manner by their father.





It will take awhile to let go of him emotionally, but do it for your kids. Dont' let them think or have ingrained in their brains that this is what relationships are about. Do better by them and yourself!
sorry girly but this is all part of addiction. You may have cleaned up but not enough to shake this schmuck. You have probably not given another man, a good man, a chance. You need to continue to work on your addictive nature and get him out of your system or you will always be dealing with his disfunctional lifestyle....and you deserve better!!
since you said you are clean already, i suggest you keep it that way.





as for your partner, send him to a rehabilitation center. Sending him there means you truly love and care for him.





Maybe, in time that you are apart, he would realize how important you are in his life.





Goodluck.
for your CHILDREN'S SAKE.....


read up on SELF ESTEEM to learn why you should not tolerate 'crap' and how to cope with it.....and..........





set a good example of dignified behavior FOR YOUR CHILDREN!
Here is your answer: You Have 5 Children. You will always hold a degree of love for this man because he is the father of your children. However, you need to live for those children! What the h*** kind of example are you setting for these children by staying with him? You are showing them that if they are boys it is okay to treat woman like this, and if they are girls it is okay to let men treat them like this. You will never be able to keep your head straight if you don't get yourself and these children out of this situation. It might be a struggle to do it, but it will be way worth it in the longrun! This is a time to trust your head and not your heart.
You need to understand that HE is also an addiction! No matter who much you ';love'; him - you cannot ';fix'; him. Concentrate on getting your life straight, with or without him.