Would love any advice on this please...?

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now, and we still haven't kissed or anything properly, mainly because I am so nervous all the time. My parents are splitting up at the moment and it's alot of stress on me, and i basically have a hell of a lot on my mind. I don't think he understands how hard it is.


Im not sure if I want the pressure of a relationship on my mind too, I find it so hard to concentrate. Im not as serious about it as he is, Im trying to take it easy but he's pretty serious about it... I don't want to hurt him, but I don't know if its the right time... Anyone got any ideas of whether this is right or wrong, what I should do etc...?Would love any advice on this please...?
Tell him that what you need right now isn't the pressure that you are feeling from being in an intense relationship, its a good friend to lean on.


If you can't function well on that side of things then the relationship is doomed anyway. The foundations need to be that you are there for each other in hard times, like now. Tell him to cool it a bit and ask him to be there for you through this as a friend. I know how horrible it is when parents split up. It might take some time but once you have the basics, in time the rest may well follow.Would love any advice on this please...?
If he was that serious about you, he would understand that you are going through a tough time right now and need support, not snogging sessions. If he really cares for you, he will understand that you need some space. I think you need to talk to him and ask him if you can have some time apart, or would splitting up be a better idea? If he cares for you, he will wait. But if you feel you are never going to feel the way he does, then maybe it is best to put him out of his misery.
If he really cares about you he will give you some time and space, don't be forced into doing something you don't want to or you may regret later. Explain your true feelings to him, he may undertsand and if he doesn't, you might want to call it a day. Good luck!!
i totally agree. If he really cares about you he wont mind waiting.maybe if you talk to him he can get you through it. On teh other hand dont tell him too much you might scare him off with your baggage...use discretion.good luck!
You are only two months into the relationship so you are only just starting up with your guy.Relationships this early on should be fun, not bogged down in domestics.


Take time for yourself and your mates,back off from him a bit to give yourself some time and headspace.


Give him a very clear message that you are under strain and this is all you can give him at this stage.


Don't compromise yourself.
do what you want in your own time. seriously completley up to you. if you want to kiss him then just go for it but if not then you should just explain to him what you feel and if he really cares about you he will get it. if he's not prepared to wait then really girl he's nto worth it. its your decision plus boyfriends are great but they're not everything as long s you have good friends to rely on. good luck :)
ur right


tell him ur going through some bad stuff right now


and u need sometime to urself


if he likes u he will wait