u know my friend, i guess u dont love him at all, i've been through true love before. u know, it was just enough for me to see her face. and i never cared about her physically , the happiest moment for me was just to watch her. so about u i think this is not love.
there are 3 points
1- u r not attracted to him sexually. so i tell u, if he's physically ok, i mean he dont have any problems , then it's ok u may can pass this point in the future.
2- ur afraid of going back to search a bf and dating. for me i think and beleive that it's destiny. if u are to have a good one. u will have him at the right time.
3- u wanna stay with him coz he's financially secure. i guess u should think of other points of him, think of his character .is he kind,tender ,generous, is he a real good man . this is more important than his money, coz he may be rich and turn back on u, so u would have a misrable rich life.
and still i wish u luck and happy life coz u sound to be a good girl.
good luck to uAnyone experience TRUE LOVE? please advice on this.?
It seems to me that you are scared to leave him because like you said you don't want to go through it again. But it doesn't sound like you love him. The worst thing to do is get married just for the money or just because. Even though you don't want to do to go through with dating again it might be the right thing because you never know who you will meet and just being with him you will miss out on you TRUE LOVE the person that makes you feel like hugging and kissing even though you just saw him like 5 min. ago or makes you feel special when ever he's around. The guy you know you want to be with no matter what through to ups and downs. That is the kind of relationship I have with my fiance. I feel that if we were to break-up any time soon I don't think I would want to marry anyone else. That is the kind of relationship you know love is there. so I hope you feel that way and if not consider finding it. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
u r 100% right. that's love developing slowly. u need not give ur happiness but just share it. if u give ur own happiness then u will be worried and u will lose interest in love.
pl proceed. u r on the right path.
well dont just go for money as most of rich people are not what they show to others and they are very very good actors as well, i live in a very rich community, a very few of them are to be considered as human coz they dont care for anything and do anything to get what they want and even those few are not young they are all old who have gone through all the situations and were brought up by their parents the rest no way ....
anyways still there maybe a possibility that he is a good man and would take care of you through all your thick and thin, in this case you can try to know his friends (if he have any) if they are kind and caring then he might be too, know if he is married to someone else as well maybe far away from ur place, know how much he love children,.....
hence try to know his ethical approach and then make some decision.
you can be in love after marriage and the idea of love that u have is the best in my view.
Becareful!
God Bless you :-)
I understand what it's like, completely. If you really love him then you should appreciate more about him than sexuality or the benifits of finacial security. Its more about friendship and helping each other out. If he is there emotionally for you and you are also there for him, than you should stay together. Love is so confusing to me right now. There are no easy answers when it comes to true feelings. If you love him, look deeper than the materialistic and phisical attributes.
I married my husband almost four years ago. I too was tired of seeking out love that was never there. It is for convenience more than anything else. I love him as a person and respect him. But now I wish I had waited for that one true love. Don't give up like I've done. Now I'm in a spot where I just can't leave. My husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year and is ill alot. Hopefully this won't happen to you. But I just can't leave him like this. Good luck and marry for true love.
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