Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Advice on being in love?

I';m only 21 but I started dating this guy when I was 17 I loved him but things happen we split up I dated someone else so did he and well when we decieded to get back together his ex girlfriend called and said she was pregnant so they got married all the while he alway found someway to come into my life but I told him know because he was married he always told me loved me now his wife and him are divorce now 2 kids and 6 years later I still am deeply in love with him I can't see any wrongs that he did me because I love him I have dated guys but when he hugs me I feel that love when he kisses me I feel that love I don't feel that with anyone but I have dreams I have goals he wants to stay in this small town and hes going for his dreams what about me his whole family wants me to be with him he wants me to be with him I deeply love him I';m wiling to be a mom any advice?Advice on being in love?
It's just the oxytocin








Anyhow, that was the longest sentence ever.Advice on being in love?
When i first read your question i had to think twice if i had written it...i am in the same position as you love dated a guy at 17 we broke up cos we were young then he found me a year ago and only recently we started officially talking again except my guy still has a girlfriend that he doesn't really want to leave but still tells me he loves me and has everyday since us meeting!





I would say go for it!!! If you have loved him since before when you were 17 and you still feel that way now when he touches you i believe that is your one true love... Wouldn't you rather try and make this work and see where it goes i know i would other wise i would be forever thinking ';what if';... If it doesn't work then you will know and at least you can say you gave it a go!





Good luck sweetie i wish my guy would leave his girl lol
Follow your heart!! If he's divorced and he loves you as deeply as you love him - then why not!?!?! Especially if you're willing to ';be a mom.'; Go Go Go!!! And if you won't do it for yourself, then do it for the unlucky people like me who haven't found that kind of love and romance yet!!
Obviously there has been a lot that has happened between the two of you over the years to keep you apart but you both seem to come back to each other.





I honestly believe that in the past the timing has been all wrong for the two of you to be together but now it';s right, so my advice is, go for it!





It sounds to me like the 2 of you are very much in love so don't waste anymore time %26amp; get together, live your dreams %26amp; be happy!
thats a hard one!


love is a strong thing!! it sounds like you found your one and only!


its sweet!! i dont think its up to you to be the mom of these kids tho!


they already have a mom all you could be is extra support for them.. and give them love.


as for you guys i would say take it slow you are only 21 and have a lot of living to do still
use your MIND. not always the HEART please.

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