My boyfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago. We had been together for five years off and on. I love him very much yet I am the one that chose to end the relationship because of a lie that he told me. I really havnt seen him, yet he will still sent me text telling me he really misses me, and that I will always have his heart. He has mine as well. I want him back. But at what price to I have to pay. He never seemed to have his life straight. And how, if at all, can I over come this lie. Am I just heartbroken??? Could there ever be a chance we get back together??? And why does he still contact me?I need some advice on a lost love?
Give it a month, then 'call him and suggest you meet for lunch. Take it from there. In the meantime, do not respond to texts or telephone messages. One day you will have to ask yourself two questions. 1. Is this the man to whom I wish to wake up next to, and, to........ grow old with? 2. What am I hoping to achieve?I need some advice on a lost love?
he contacted you because he (still) has a feeling for you. he's dealing with the same feeling you're dealing with too right now...
am i just heartbroken? yes.for sure..you hv 5yrs relationship and you just broke up 2weeks ago..give yourself time...it wont be easy.
could there ever be the next chance for two of you? maybe..you should figure it out..but first...deal with your broken heart first..make sure you hv your mind think clearly when you make your next decision about your future with him. in life, a relationship doesnt just need love..it needs a lot more than love.
Of course you must be heart-broken but will you get over the lie he told you...Well no-one can determine that only you...There can be a chance but hey if its meant to be it will happen...If you do get back with him well its up to both of you how much you really want it to work and im sure it possible...If its not meant to be then it obviously wont happen
Hope this helps
well as u can see he still feels 4 u since he contacts u telleing u that u have his 鈾?that means that he probably didnt wnt 2 brake up...it all depends what ur heart tells u if ur heart tells u 2 give him a chance then give him one!! remember True Love only comes once!! but like I said:
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
Well I used to be in a relationship like that one. And if 1 lie is all he has told you, maybe you need to ask him straight up why he did it! And ask if you can start over as friends, and see where that leads you,
Time heals all wounds.
I think it was very smart of you to end the relationship (at least for now) Taking time to breathe and re-evaluate things on your own will help to clear your head and decide what you want for your future.
It is completely fine to feel the way you feel. I am sure you are heartbroken. You have invested a lot of time and emotional energy into this relationship over the course of several years. Let yourself grieve over the lose of this togetherness you had with him. That is the first step to healing this.
I think that there is a chance you could get back together. Just take time apart so you both can think things through. Make a list of goals for your life and wualities in a partner that you need in order to have a fullfilling life.
He still contacts you because he is heartbroken and missing you too! It takes time to go from being together all the time to not at all.
Good luck to you
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