i met this guy online, we are kinda far apart,never met in person, and havent even talked on the phone. but when we chat its for hours and he seems so sincere that I want to believe in this guy and have faith in him but i don't know it's hard for me to completely trust..and he seems very busy all the time lately..and sometimes i go off on the over-emotional deep end sometimes and leave crazy messages which i feel is only pushing him away...but it's only because i am torn between really falling for him and really feeling hurt when days go by without a word...any advice... i'm so confused i'm not sure what to think...Falling in love online..any advice on subject? how to tell if it's real or if you are being played a fool?
Give it time, but be careful. So far, you've only chatted...try using webcam and phone calls.
It's true that there are a lot of whackos online, but there are real people here too.
I met my boyfriend online. We chat whenever possible, stare at each other's eyes on cam and talk on the phone as often as we can(and expensive too- lol). It's hard being in this kind of relationship. It will require a lot of trust between the two of you.
For now, don't focus all your attention on him, date off-line too.
Good luck!Falling in love online..any advice on subject? how to tell if it's real or if you are being played a fool?
forget about it.....to know someone in net is too virtual not reality...
there many nice guys out there without net....check it out before falling for virtual (something not real and too many hidden secret of another party)
Believe.
Beware of scams when looking for love online !
An online dating scam is when a scammer, male or female, creates a false profile and makes contact via an online dating agency or a chat room. The scammer professes that they are seeking romance or a soul mate: however, he or she only wants your money.
Check the sites below
Seduced into scams: Online lovers often duped
This one is from MSNBC -Second website
Be careful......I met a man from here once and we dated .long distance , we broke up .........then he came back into my life and married me last DEC........I have not seen him since........He is in the Military and he did it to get the extra benefits..........and this DEC I am getting a DIVORCE.........Meet the old fashion way.............It easy to get feelings for someone on line ..........You can get hurt here to...........I don't wanna on line relationship..........Good LUCK
I met my wife online. We chatted for a while, then finallt talked on the phone for awhile. When we finally did meet, we already knew each other. After meeting, which was at a place she chose, it was as normal as any people meeting.
not a good idea.
this guy is proubly married with kids, thats why he is very busy..and why he hasnt talked to you on the phone..think about it and let this man go...he is playing you like a fiddle...when he has time he is singing loud when he dont have time he dont sing at all..dont fall for this man..find someone who is for real..good luck.
you know the truth, we can not tell you
99% of people on the internet aren't who they say they are. Keep your feelings very much in check until you get actual proof that the person you think you are talking to is actually the person. They might be a lot older than they say and have a lot more emotional problems than has already been displayed.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
I need help and advice on falling in love online normal or not?
I think i have fallen in love online. I am in my first year in highschool and i was on a chatting website where i found an amazing guy. hes 3 years older and lives in the uk and i live in the us. i am going crazy. its something so different and i really care for him. we spend everyday talking online for several hours. hes not distracting me, its the opposite i feel like if we break up then i will slack off on everything. he is my world and i love him so much. its so unbelievable that i found him and we have so much in common. only 2 people known about my relationship with him and they think i should stop now before i get so attached to him that i will go out and meet him and then get raped or whatever. but its not like that, this is different i dont know how to describe it. he makes my days better and brings a smile to my face. theres a postive to the long distance because this way we dont meet up and we dont talk over the phone. i need advice and can this work out in the future me and him?I need help and advice on falling in love online normal or not?
are you sure he's actually real?
a lot of people go online lying about who they are as a person.
where i live there have been 2 cases this year of two girls who believed two different men and now they are nowhere to be found.
you should really be careful.
i don't think loving someone online is possible...I need help and advice on falling in love online normal or not?
think you do better as making him a best friend and find you a forreal person to gett attached to.long distace cool but you never know what out there.
In all honesty it COULD work out. The brilliant thing about meeting people online is that you see personality first, then looks. If you decide to get in a relationship you already know that you're good with each other, and since you love their personality you can get past the minor flaws that might have turned you off had you met them physically first.
You should wait until you're at least 18, and if you still want to pursue a relationship with him, you might want to consider meeting him.acne scars holiday makeup
are you sure he's actually real?
a lot of people go online lying about who they are as a person.
where i live there have been 2 cases this year of two girls who believed two different men and now they are nowhere to be found.
you should really be careful.
i don't think loving someone online is possible...I need help and advice on falling in love online normal or not?
think you do better as making him a best friend and find you a forreal person to gett attached to.long distace cool but you never know what out there.
In all honesty it COULD work out. The brilliant thing about meeting people online is that you see personality first, then looks. If you decide to get in a relationship you already know that you're good with each other, and since you love their personality you can get past the minor flaws that might have turned you off had you met them physically first.
You should wait until you're at least 18, and if you still want to pursue a relationship with him, you might want to consider meeting him.
I need some advice on a lost love?
My boyfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago. We had been together for five years off and on. I love him very much yet I am the one that chose to end the relationship because of a lie that he told me. I really havnt seen him, yet he will still sent me text telling me he really misses me, and that I will always have his heart. He has mine as well. I want him back. But at what price to I have to pay. He never seemed to have his life straight. And how, if at all, can I over come this lie. Am I just heartbroken??? Could there ever be a chance we get back together??? And why does he still contact me?I need some advice on a lost love?
Give it a month, then 'call him and suggest you meet for lunch. Take it from there. In the meantime, do not respond to texts or telephone messages. One day you will have to ask yourself two questions. 1. Is this the man to whom I wish to wake up next to, and, to........ grow old with? 2. What am I hoping to achieve?I need some advice on a lost love?
he contacted you because he (still) has a feeling for you. he's dealing with the same feeling you're dealing with too right now...
am i just heartbroken? yes.for sure..you hv 5yrs relationship and you just broke up 2weeks ago..give yourself time...it wont be easy.
could there ever be the next chance for two of you? maybe..you should figure it out..but first...deal with your broken heart first..make sure you hv your mind think clearly when you make your next decision about your future with him. in life, a relationship doesnt just need love..it needs a lot more than love.
Of course you must be heart-broken but will you get over the lie he told you...Well no-one can determine that only you...There can be a chance but hey if its meant to be it will happen...If you do get back with him well its up to both of you how much you really want it to work and im sure it possible...If its not meant to be then it obviously wont happen
Hope this helps
well as u can see he still feels 4 u since he contacts u telleing u that u have his 鈾?that means that he probably didnt wnt 2 brake up...it all depends what ur heart tells u if ur heart tells u 2 give him a chance then give him one!! remember True Love only comes once!! but like I said:
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
Well I used to be in a relationship like that one. And if 1 lie is all he has told you, maybe you need to ask him straight up why he did it! And ask if you can start over as friends, and see where that leads you,
Time heals all wounds.
I think it was very smart of you to end the relationship (at least for now) Taking time to breathe and re-evaluate things on your own will help to clear your head and decide what you want for your future.
It is completely fine to feel the way you feel. I am sure you are heartbroken. You have invested a lot of time and emotional energy into this relationship over the course of several years. Let yourself grieve over the lose of this togetherness you had with him. That is the first step to healing this.
I think that there is a chance you could get back together. Just take time apart so you both can think things through. Make a list of goals for your life and wualities in a partner that you need in order to have a fullfilling life.
He still contacts you because he is heartbroken and missing you too! It takes time to go from being together all the time to not at all.
Good luck to you
Give it a month, then 'call him and suggest you meet for lunch. Take it from there. In the meantime, do not respond to texts or telephone messages. One day you will have to ask yourself two questions. 1. Is this the man to whom I wish to wake up next to, and, to........ grow old with? 2. What am I hoping to achieve?I need some advice on a lost love?
he contacted you because he (still) has a feeling for you. he's dealing with the same feeling you're dealing with too right now...
am i just heartbroken? yes.for sure..you hv 5yrs relationship and you just broke up 2weeks ago..give yourself time...it wont be easy.
could there ever be the next chance for two of you? maybe..you should figure it out..but first...deal with your broken heart first..make sure you hv your mind think clearly when you make your next decision about your future with him. in life, a relationship doesnt just need love..it needs a lot more than love.
Of course you must be heart-broken but will you get over the lie he told you...Well no-one can determine that only you...There can be a chance but hey if its meant to be it will happen...If you do get back with him well its up to both of you how much you really want it to work and im sure it possible...If its not meant to be then it obviously wont happen
Hope this helps
well as u can see he still feels 4 u since he contacts u telleing u that u have his 鈾?that means that he probably didnt wnt 2 brake up...it all depends what ur heart tells u if ur heart tells u 2 give him a chance then give him one!! remember True Love only comes once!! but like I said:
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
Well I used to be in a relationship like that one. And if 1 lie is all he has told you, maybe you need to ask him straight up why he did it! And ask if you can start over as friends, and see where that leads you,
Time heals all wounds.
I think it was very smart of you to end the relationship (at least for now) Taking time to breathe and re-evaluate things on your own will help to clear your head and decide what you want for your future.
It is completely fine to feel the way you feel. I am sure you are heartbroken. You have invested a lot of time and emotional energy into this relationship over the course of several years. Let yourself grieve over the lose of this togetherness you had with him. That is the first step to healing this.
I think that there is a chance you could get back together. Just take time apart so you both can think things through. Make a list of goals for your life and wualities in a partner that you need in order to have a fullfilling life.
He still contacts you because he is heartbroken and missing you too! It takes time to go from being together all the time to not at all.
Good luck to you
I need advice on a complicated love triangle?
so over this past summer I became very close with one of my friends( and co worker) and although she had a boyfriend of three years they were a little whacky and we decided to see where things and and they went far. The problem is she goes to college in Texas and I'm in PA and when she went back to Texas she and her boyfriend got things rolling again and are stronger then ever. I truly do love her and it hurts to see her with him instsead of me. We are still very close and talk for nearly an hour each night and text constatnly which is way more then she talks to him and all of her Family hates him so in my mind I think it would be an easy decision to leave him but aperently not. I've considered trying to convince her to tell him about what happenedover the summer because chances are he Would leave her but then I realize she might blame me for everything and then I still don't get her. What should I do? Any ideas on how to win her? I need advice on a complicated love triangle?
After her and her man broke up she should have waited and not misled you into thinking you would have her forever....So its her fault
You cant rally convince a female to do anything lol i am one i know....So dont try to break them apart.
Let her know how you feel still to this day and let her know you will be by her side no matter what she is going through or no matter what happens between him and her.
Give it time...Dont try to push yourself on her although she misled you just stay positive and again dont try to break them apart.
From the sounds of it....Her fam doesnt like him etc that relationship most likely wont work but i guess time will tell so i dk.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
After her and her man broke up she should have waited and not misled you into thinking you would have her forever....So its her fault
You cant rally convince a female to do anything lol i am one i know....So dont try to break them apart.
Let her know how you feel still to this day and let her know you will be by her side no matter what she is going through or no matter what happens between him and her.
Give it time...Dont try to push yourself on her although she misled you just stay positive and again dont try to break them apart.
From the sounds of it....Her fam doesnt like him etc that relationship most likely wont work but i guess time will tell so i dk.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
I need advice on this difficult love situation?
I have a guy friend for mths but we live in different cities and never see each other. We keep in contact by chat but not often..every couple of wks. Once a while back we kissed but havnt talked about this. I'm trying my best to forget him but can't. I even go on dates with guys that ask me out (luckily I get asked out a lot) but even with the best intentions, my mind goes to this other guy at the end of the night and I'm still in love with him. What should I do? It's wearing me out emotionally. Sometimes he greets me on chat, but I now seem to greet him more. I've heard that if a guy stays in touch after something physical with a girl, then he is interested in her. Is this true? I've invited him to visit me but its difficult due to heavy work loads %26amp; I'm not sure if he is just putting me off. I don't have the nerve to ask for fear of rejection...what can I do, I'm so disappointed and can't find a way out of this situation?I need advice on this difficult love situation?
If a guy stays in touch with a girl after something physical with her doesn't necessary means that he's interested in her. It could mean that he knows where is can get his jollies.
You must take a chance to find romance.
Even if he rejects you, then at least you'll know that you tried. Then your mind can be at peace and you can move on with your life.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.I need advice on this difficult love situation?
that same fear of rejection will keep you thinking about him for the rest of you life if you don't act now! spit is out my friend and you will feel better, it is better to let him know you love him and get a straight answer than just sit down and imagine you two together in a fantasy island, be realistic. And trust me if you get a negative answer which i hope you don't, you life will be so much at peace and you can enjoy having ur date's without thinking about him at night.! hope this helps
u gotta ask! i been there done that trust i know exactly how it feels and it took me a whole lot of courage to actually ask the guy.but after he answered my question, which i thought would be heart wrenching disappointing yada yada, it actually made me feel better! he said he has no feelings for me but i was cool cos ive got the answer. and believe it or not, that answer actually made STRONGER! what doesnt kill you only makes u strong gal
just ask there is no harm in doing it and then you will no how he truly feels
but if it looks like he's not interested just dont talk to him for a while and see how he reacts
it might tell you something
then you can get over him and find someone better who can undefinately take you mind off him
AW NO! I've been in the same situation but now it's all good! But you should ask him if he's just putting you off or if his is actually engaged in work ';because if you don't wanna see me then you don't have to come';. I'm a guy and when I liked this chick who I wasn't sure if she still liked me she said just that, in a relaxed but slightly gutted way and woh did it pull on the heart strings! You'll just dig yourself into an emotional pit if you don't give him a chance to see what you feel.
And yes I believe that the guy is too nervous to talk about the kissing cos he doesn't want to seem like it was something special or something he doesn't get often. It's just how guys work.
But I believe from the sounds of things, that he longs for you to kiss him again, he just doesn'y wanna admit it
How do you know he is single and available.Ask him straight out.You might then answer your own question
If a guy stays in touch with a girl after something physical with her doesn't necessary means that he's interested in her. It could mean that he knows where is can get his jollies.
You must take a chance to find romance.
Even if he rejects you, then at least you'll know that you tried. Then your mind can be at peace and you can move on with your life.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.I need advice on this difficult love situation?
that same fear of rejection will keep you thinking about him for the rest of you life if you don't act now! spit is out my friend and you will feel better, it is better to let him know you love him and get a straight answer than just sit down and imagine you two together in a fantasy island, be realistic. And trust me if you get a negative answer which i hope you don't, you life will be so much at peace and you can enjoy having ur date's without thinking about him at night.! hope this helps
u gotta ask! i been there done that trust i know exactly how it feels and it took me a whole lot of courage to actually ask the guy.but after he answered my question, which i thought would be heart wrenching disappointing yada yada, it actually made me feel better! he said he has no feelings for me but i was cool cos ive got the answer. and believe it or not, that answer actually made STRONGER! what doesnt kill you only makes u strong gal
just ask there is no harm in doing it and then you will no how he truly feels
but if it looks like he's not interested just dont talk to him for a while and see how he reacts
it might tell you something
then you can get over him and find someone better who can undefinately take you mind off him
AW NO! I've been in the same situation but now it's all good! But you should ask him if he's just putting you off or if his is actually engaged in work ';because if you don't wanna see me then you don't have to come';. I'm a guy and when I liked this chick who I wasn't sure if she still liked me she said just that, in a relaxed but slightly gutted way and woh did it pull on the heart strings! You'll just dig yourself into an emotional pit if you don't give him a chance to see what you feel.
And yes I believe that the guy is too nervous to talk about the kissing cos he doesn't want to seem like it was something special or something he doesn't get often. It's just how guys work.
But I believe from the sounds of things, that he longs for you to kiss him again, he just doesn'y wanna admit it
How do you know he is single and available.Ask him straight out.You might then answer your own question
Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
Let me tell you this situation.
I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. I felt so terrible... he ignored me and chose his friends over me, and I wasn't getting what I wanted. We dated for 3 1/2 years almost and for the first 2 years we were as happy as ever... just head over heels for eachother. As time went by we changed a bit both...
Now that were seperated I have realized how much I miss him and care about him. I feel like he made mistakes, but I see the mistakes I was making as well. I was being so selfish in always wanting what I wanted, never asking him what he wants or anything. I would get angry easily and remind him of everything wrong he did. I was just nagging and being someone I didn't want to be!
Anyways, I realize this now and have been trying to get him back. I don't want to let something so precious go... and I love him. What is the best way to get him back? I told him how I felt, but he said he wanted to see the change first. I know I'm becoming a different person and already have quite a bit of change... I know it will take time for the complete change, but still. Before it's too late... any pointers or ideas?
3 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
i think you are blaming yourself for something you didn't do
it was his fault that ignore you and choose another girl but now you are saying you was selfish believe me when my x leave me i was thinking all the time and blame myself for things aren't true .
you are saying he is with someone else now not you
and think about that will he leave his girlfriend and look for anyone now
sorry i am very sorry but i don't think so ,girl you need to relax and think about the problem and i am sure you gonna make it . i don't know what you will decide but i know your personality because of your answers and i know whatever you do is the right thing.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
well just go up to him and tell him you just want to be friends first nothing more then after a couple weeks or so just tell him you want to go on dates nothing to serious and hopefully he will see the changes you made and he will have feeling for you again and just keep reminding him about all the good times and forget about the bad but eventually he will go back to you
leave him alone,
once he sees your not calling or looking for him,
he will call,
Guys lie to chase,
give him time he probably is feeling what ur feeling u sound so used 2 each other wait
I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. I felt so terrible... he ignored me and chose his friends over me, and I wasn't getting what I wanted. We dated for 3 1/2 years almost and for the first 2 years we were as happy as ever... just head over heels for eachother. As time went by we changed a bit both...
Now that were seperated I have realized how much I miss him and care about him. I feel like he made mistakes, but I see the mistakes I was making as well. I was being so selfish in always wanting what I wanted, never asking him what he wants or anything. I would get angry easily and remind him of everything wrong he did. I was just nagging and being someone I didn't want to be!
Anyways, I realize this now and have been trying to get him back. I don't want to let something so precious go... and I love him. What is the best way to get him back? I told him how I felt, but he said he wanted to see the change first. I know I'm becoming a different person and already have quite a bit of change... I know it will take time for the complete change, but still. Before it's too late... any pointers or ideas?
3 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
i think you are blaming yourself for something you didn't do
it was his fault that ignore you and choose another girl but now you are saying you was selfish believe me when my x leave me i was thinking all the time and blame myself for things aren't true .
you are saying he is with someone else now not you
and think about that will he leave his girlfriend and look for anyone now
sorry i am very sorry but i don't think so ,girl you need to relax and think about the problem and i am sure you gonna make it . i don't know what you will decide but i know your personality because of your answers and i know whatever you do is the right thing.Please HELP! Advice on getting your love back?
well just go up to him and tell him you just want to be friends first nothing more then after a couple weeks or so just tell him you want to go on dates nothing to serious and hopefully he will see the changes you made and he will have feeling for you again and just keep reminding him about all the good times and forget about the bad but eventually he will go back to you
leave him alone,
once he sees your not calling or looking for him,
he will call,
Guys lie to chase,
give him time he probably is feeling what ur feeling u sound so used 2 each other wait
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Im a boy who dresses ';girly';. I love wearing shorts and capris. Girls any advice on how to beautify my legs?
Shave/wax/lotions/tan?????Im a boy who dresses ';girly';. I love wearing shorts and capris. Girls any advice on how to beautify my legs?
I think shaving would suit you best.
Also, if your legs are grown out with hair, I'd suggest you tan it. They will look pale after the shave because the hair blocks out the sun.
And make sure you moisturize your legs after a shave and when they get dry. Nobody wants ashy legs.
Good luck hun :)
Don't listen to anyone saying you're gay or need to hit puberty or whatever!
Oh, also, exfoliate your legs with a body wash with those little beads in them, like Aveeno's. They will be smooth and sexy.Im a boy who dresses ';girly';. I love wearing shorts and capris. Girls any advice on how to beautify my legs?
Waxing is the best , don't ever think about using razor cause they screw up ur legs believe me , and lotions are good , drink water alot , it is good for ur skin , and u shouldn't get a tan ... its too much , hope i helped xD good luck
Enjoy it. Once you hit puberty you may feel different.
uhh...are you gay? well, shave your legs and put on lotion...for added ';beauty'; work out your calves so you can see them...
This is f***in hilarious!
that's discusting you are probably gay dude
Haha are you gay by any chance?
Gay.
do you think your a girl.
well wax and then tan them :]
and how old are you?
why is ur avatar a girl?acne scars holiday makeup
I think shaving would suit you best.
Also, if your legs are grown out with hair, I'd suggest you tan it. They will look pale after the shave because the hair blocks out the sun.
And make sure you moisturize your legs after a shave and when they get dry. Nobody wants ashy legs.
Good luck hun :)
Don't listen to anyone saying you're gay or need to hit puberty or whatever!
Oh, also, exfoliate your legs with a body wash with those little beads in them, like Aveeno's. They will be smooth and sexy.Im a boy who dresses ';girly';. I love wearing shorts and capris. Girls any advice on how to beautify my legs?
Waxing is the best , don't ever think about using razor cause they screw up ur legs believe me , and lotions are good , drink water alot , it is good for ur skin , and u shouldn't get a tan ... its too much , hope i helped xD good luck
Enjoy it. Once you hit puberty you may feel different.
uhh...are you gay? well, shave your legs and put on lotion...for added ';beauty'; work out your calves so you can see them...
This is f***in hilarious!
that's discusting you are probably gay dude
Haha are you gay by any chance?
Gay.
do you think your a girl.
well wax and then tan them :]
and how old are you?
why is ur avatar a girl?
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